In Part 3, Jordan explains that what you’re sacrificing by getting married are the things that should have already fallen by the wayside with the advent of maturity, and that the gains far outweigh the so-called loss of freedoms. Topics covered include: Why marriage is the highest form of play. How career, children and marriage can and should work together. Why renewing vows is a sacred symbolic act. And why we should strive to live up to the ideals of marriage rather than forsaking them.